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Does social media bring us together, or has it turned us all into smartphone zombies or worse?

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1,563 views 31 upvotes Made by Slobama 4 years ago in The_Think_Tank
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8 ups, 4y,
2 replies
I think the term social media is misleading... Anti-social media is a better term.... Which was to be expected. I've moderated several sites before social media became a big thing... Well back in the days you had MySpace, but I never used that, so I've no experience with it. Most community sites were strictly moderated then, and for good reasons... Banned quite a lot of people back then already, I tell ya. And then Facebook and Twitter came, with no moderation at all, and people did get to the worst. Insults, fake-news, etc. etc. Nothing new... All that stuff pre-dates the internet by millennia, so they should have known that a medium like that was only going to make things faster. Of course, Facebook was never meant to become as big as it became. It was just a school project to please fellow students, but it wouldn't be the first time things go viral unintendedly, that too is nothing new.

Most social media destroyed more than they enhanced. The internet seems so safe... Just hide behind a nickname and an avatar and you're invincible, right? Or at least, that's what people want to believe.

Of course, it would also be nothing new when a mistake of this proportion leads to something really great and really needed. It's to early now to say if Social Media is such a mistake that lead to something great. But up until now the cons outrank the pros by ratios that are beyond insanity. If the Social Media was the mistake that led to something good, I hope it will be very good, in order to make it up for the trouble it brought... really.
7 ups, 4y
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Indeed & well said.
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1 up, 4y
You have said what I have always wanted to say for the last past 5 years now. THANK YOU.
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3 ups, 4y
Well yes and no....It's all good and bad, it depends on what you do or what you get yourself into. Make a tiny little mistake and people online could either hate ye or not.
3 ups, 4y
People have said some good stuff. There are two problems I have with social media. The first has to do with its addictive properties, which other people have mentioned. I also feel like people will more readily believe things they see on social media than they would if a stranger told them the same thing in real life.
3 ups, 4y,
1 reply
No. I have friends online and they're helping me get though the virus.
2 ups, 4y,
1 reply
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Staying social online helps with coronavirus-induced isolation.
3 ups, 4y
Well I don't have the virus, which is good. But I'm really stressed out and I wish I can just go outside with my buddies and not stay indoors.
2 ups, 4y
The Internet itself may have been a mistake. A medium always has an effect on the message, and our screens seem to tone down our better selves and amp up our worst aspects. I suspect it has to do a lot with the absence of voice tone and body language.

Plus knowing the other person can't punch us in the nose if we're a jerk.
2 ups, 4y,
2 replies
I don't think social media in and of itself is good or bad. The big problem is that there is no subject in school to teach you about what to do and not to do online. There are a lot of easy mistakes to make and nobody prepares you for that. For example, it's always dangerous to share personal information like your real name or address with anyone - and I think Facebook is absolutely horrible for forcing you to use your real name - and posting pictures of yourself is also a pretty big risk. As soon as you post anything personal online it is basically public, however small the platform might be. You should know that and think about all the possible consequences before ever touching social media. There are certainly a few other rules like you should always fact check anything you read online before believing it, nothing is free - they either want to sell you something or use your information for something or both, and yes, the internet is an adult place, if you're not ready to see certain things or be confronted with a certain language intensity you might not want to be here. Many sites have NSFW-filters, but even those are not infallible and they certainly haven't figured out how to filter for false statements or hate yet. There is no guarantee that you won't be exposed to things you don't want. Unless you can be absolutely certain that you can deal with it, switch to a more regulated medium. In general there just aren't enough warnings about the dangers of the internet in general and social media in particular. With those warnings and a certain amount of training there could be a lot less dangerous situations and a lot more benefits from such a powerful tool. Stay safe, everybody!
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1 up, 4y
Very well said. I sure wished my parents taught me all about being safe online instead of simply handing me a computer and saying, “here! Have fun!” at age 17. Plus what is worse is that whenever they find out what I have been saying and posting online they always get extremely angry at me. Like WTF? It NOT my fault that I have millions of people out there whom either abhor my guts or whom want to legit kill me!! -_-
1 up, 4y
You’ve elegantly stated just about everything that has me worried about social media right now — as well as the risk of addiction.

Two high school (or better yet, middle school) classes we desperately need are safe social media practices, as well as interpersonal/relationship skills in general which should have been made a part of the regular curriculum decades ago.
2 ups, 4y,
1 reply
2 ups, 4y,
1 reply
But we can make it not a mistake in the choices we make online every day.
2 ups, 4y
well yeah
1 up, 4y
I do understand why some people would hate social media because everyone on planet earth right now are just attaching their eyes to their screens. But without social media, I wouldn't have met such amazing people that have been helping me ever since quarantine started and I was unable to talk with my friends at school (they didn't even show up to one online class and didn't answer any of my emails)
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1 up, 4y
its based on which person you are..i guess
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1 up, 4y
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1 up, 4y
I'm literally getting bored to death. Screw corona.
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1 up, 4y
probably, but it helps w/ meh depression.
1 up, 4y,
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No, it's a tool that can be used.
Letting yourself become enslaved by it or letting it make you jealous of others is a big mistake.
Too much of a good thing can be a bad thing.
2 ups, 4y
No no he’s got a point
2 ups, 4y,
2 replies
Social media is a humanity-enhancer. That is, it can bring out the best in us or the worst in us. It can transmit life-saving news and data rapidly, or it can speed the flow of information and ideas that transmit hate and can actually kill.

Social media does not really change our essential character as human beings whatsoever.

So, it depends.

Sorry I could not be of more help today.
4 ups, 4y
3 ups, 4y
I think the concept of morally neutral technology is a bit philosophically myopic.
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1 up, 4y
Yes
1 up, 4y
imma just say that this wouldn't be here without social media and lev
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1 up, 4y
No...because right now...my friends online are helping me, through depression and quarantine
1 up, 4y
I've heard that some people become dependant on it, to the point of obsessively checking their phone for updates instead of enjoying some offline time. As long as it doesn't come to that, I think it's a net positive.
1 up, 4y,
1 reply
I can think of one that was a mistake
0 ups, 4y
Wifey and I watch it sometimes, and our ForYou page is full of content I find genuinely funny and sometimes thought-provoking

I’m sure there’s a lot of TikTok content that isn’t beneficial though — and an insane potential for addiction — which is sadly the exact thing all successful social media platforms aim for (and kind of are forced to aim for) in order to retain likes, views, and market share.
1 up, 4y
Nope. i don't think i would have survived if i didn't have communication w/ friends lol (jk) but life would've been much worse XD
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1 up, 4y
1 up, 4y
I don’t care. I’m an ultra introvert so I don’t do much “social”
1 up, 4y
After hearing the song Wap, maybe ted kaczynki was right
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1 up, 4y
yes social media is the biggest waste of time and your life
0 ups, 4y
No
0 ups, 4y,
1 reply
Social media is for f**king idiots. I mean, if you ever catch me on a social media site, please snuff out my life.
1 up, 4y
I suggest you lock up your guns before you find out what kind of a site this is
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