to be fair,it also means:to talk in a noisy, excited, or declamatory manner,to scold vehemently,a bombastic extravagant speech
that right there is a macrocosm of our disagreements.
words.
and yes,it is very exhausting.
we are decidedly very different people,who approach issues from wholly disparate disciplines,but I think it safe to say we both are not intentionally being obtuse with each other,but how we communicate tends to either talk past each other,or unintentionally condescend to the other.
(giving you a pass on this one,i don't want to think of you as an archie).
which is one of the reasons I still engage with you,frustrating as that can become at times,because I don't think you are a bad faith actor,and are genuinely trying to understand.
so can we get past the words? which are inert,they are just symbols with meanings that are informed by our own biases and prejudices.we inject the deeper meanings.
so when I tell you that I feel/think a certain way....
can I get a modicum of benefit of doubt that I am speaking true to my intentions?
a wee bit?
tiny little bit?
I think I have earned at least that much.
because I do like your rants,even though I may disagree at times,either in whole or in part.
I respect the time and thought put into them.
I appreciate the time you are taking to attempt to understand me,even though you tend to lean far too hard on your own pre-conceptions.
we are not as opposed as you might assume.