First off, the vote shouldn't be left to only people who own land or have done military service. People who owned land back then most likely voted in favour of themselves, not in favour of the people. If we went back then, when only land owners voted, we wouldn't be living in a democracy, nor a republic, we'd be living in a plutocracy. And people who served in the military shouldn't be allowed to vote exclusively either. The military back then didn't exactly allow for free-thinkers.
Normal civilians should have a vote and a say when it comes to politics, because they did the work as well! In an agricultural, or industrial country, the common labourers worked for the landowners. They provided the clothes, food, steel etc. They worked their backs, and because of voting being excluded from them, a lot of them lived in squalor.
Second, how is women voting bad? What makes women incapable of voting correctly? A lot of what you list is not directly from women being allowed to the ballots. Some of them are caused by a minority of stupid people. Others are mass generalisations. Others is just how it is. Some people nowadays don't centre morality around their nation. Some parts are about the human condition. People sympathise with immigrants since they're for a better life which their home cannot give them. Welfare allows some people to live in areas where they have little to no opportunity (though it's not perfect). Divorce rates increase because people realise they're not compatible with each other.
How can we have a world where people are equal if we don't allow half the population their human rights?