Here's the thing tho, not to sound like I'm harshing on you, but you DO dish it out as well, yes?
Now from your perspective, what some may say may sound harsh, but from their perspective, it's just words to toss at someone. Your reaction may highlight a sensitivity to them, and people will latch on to that, now having a percieved weakness to attack.
Thing is, are they totally initiating this themselves, or are they perhaps doing it in response?
For example, I saw earlier a comment where you took a swipe at Americans. Now you did say it was sarcasm, but it was still a swipe. You also took to referring to whomever as "Russian" or "Russbot."
Not criticizing that, I do it all the time. But in doing so, I can't cry foul when someone responds in kind.
I'm not saying this is all on you, just that we can't give and not expect to get. You can't get offended about what others say about your people then expect others to not get offended by what you say about theirs. Now you're thinking that what you said was not that harsh, yet who's to say they're not thinking the same thing?
Bottom line is that we can't lob something and not expect it to not get lobbed back. And if they do it harder? Well you both ARE trying to outdo each other, so que sera, c'est la vie.
And no matter what is said, they're still just words, given only the strength we allow them to have. It's just a game, no big deal. You are you and you'll be ok...