Here's a more rational example of the Electoral College, without the kneejerk misconceptions.
Five families are going on vacation together, but first they have to decide where to go. They agree they all want to go together, but some want to go to the Grand Canyon, while others want to go to Disney World.
Each family gets to vote on the destination.
The family of 10 really wants to go to Disney and when they are each polled, Disney wins 8-2.
The head of that family is very close to the head of the family of 6 and tries to sway them to Disney as well. It works that that family votes 5-1 for the Florida trip.
Another family, this one with five wants to go to Arizona, so they vote 5-0 for the Grand Canyon. Likewise a family of three and four.
So when the five families each cast their votes, the Grand Canyon wins 3-2. Each family got a vote and each member of each family had their vote heard at the appropriate level.
Rather than two larger families dictating the course for the entire lot, the vote was fair and equitable for everyone involved. No one imagined their intra-family vote should be factored into some fictional vote at the family level.