I'm not blaming women for all of it, though, I do think they need to take more responsibility for the sexual failures of some men. I was relentlessly bullied on a daily basis by a nasty girl all throughout middle school. She completely destroyed my confidence around girls. I also dealt with quite a few nasty (female) teachers who were borderline abusive and should've absolutely been fired.
I haven't even approached a girl in years. I don't know how. I was never taught, nor had anyone in my life to emulate such skills from.
It's unfair to expect all boys to become confident, while providing no framework to help all boys achieve confidence.
I had 2 coworkers who went to high school in the county adjacent to the one I live in, and they told me that their high schools had body positivity classes for all girls, but nothing for boys.
In this day and age, it's no longer realistic to expect all boys to learn how to get girls to like them on their own.