Wow... there's stupid and then there is... you.
I have just now decided to be a male lesbian, because liberals told me I get to make shit like that up, and it must be respected. How do you strip gender out of that homosexuality?
Answer: you can't.
Seriously - if you are going to support incredibly stupid shit, the very least you can do is learn the bullshit rules your side is laying down, then abide by them.