Mikki, I know healthcare isn't all of it,but I suspect it's a big piece of the puzzle. I will NEVER forget what my uncle (now dead at 43 thanks to being uninsured, though he worked until he could walk no longer) -went through trying to find affordable counseling for his oldest son,who was molested by the family pervert(this is one of the many reasons I hate Trump so much-i've SEEN what molestation does to a child's psyche.)
My uncle wasn't able to afford help for him,& the boy went into a brutal downward spiral that he STILL struggles with.
Yes,I know you wait w/ NHS, I know that counseling isn't a magic wand, but knowing that support is offered DOES drain hostility.
My cousin went on to become a sadistic creep who shot his friend,a brilliant programmer,in the eye;he ended up with hideous brain damage & is now a bag boy at Publix. They werent even arguing.
Would access to counseling have helped? We will NEVER know..but I received counseling after a pesticide exposure gave me & our Labrador retriever cancer,& even though i am STILL upset, i haven't shot anyone yet!😢🐕💔