Absolutely none of my business but I must say....I am so jealous of the journey you're beginning. I love babies! Take it from a grandmother that's seen how fast it goes, you'll get plenty of sleep when she's grown. It's exhausting, overwhelming and at times infuriating but keep in mind that sweet little bundle of exhaustion is going to get married day after tomorrow. Ask your mom about how fast and slow time goes. You can not give enough hugs, kisses, encouragement or understanding to children. Especially girls. Oh, and, just in case you haven't been informed, you'll be a referee between her and your wife in about ten years. My advice to you is stay out of it. Just keep them from throwing dishes because in five minutes they'll be hugging again. It's a mom daughter thing. Lol. I am soooo jealous.