Well, that's actually a good thing the older one moved out, he gets a chance to "Spred his wings" and hopefully become a responsible adult, although he's still young, he's sure to screw something up but that's where even I learned the most about life! Kids are so sheltered today, they need to f**k up on their own and fix it, not call mommy and daddy to get them out of trouble! (Completely, I don't think a little guidance from parents ever hurts as long as the kid does the lifting, you know?). :)