Dude, well put, I don't know hat to say other than thank you!
My brother is taking care of the immediate arrangements, & then we'll have a memorial in the spring when we can take his ashes out on the water. He'll go to the crematorium with a rod and reel.
Funny thing is, he always wanted a "Viking" funeral... set adrift on his boat which is then set ablaze. I can think of several governmental agencies that would frown uponthat, however!