Where I stand, I prefer working for stuff instead of taking the P2W route. You say you prefer a relaxing experience as opposed to paying or grinding, yet you talk in favor of P2W.
For some, a relaxing gaming experience might be casual and calm. Like Minecraft Creative mode, Stardew Valley, or Slime Rancher. Others find casually grinding for an item to be relaxing, especially when compared to the chaos of the boss fights.