“An embryo isn't a child”
Correct, and most women don’t even know they’re pregnant at this stage of human development. So, human embryos don’t get aborted.

You even distinguish trans men from men yourself.

Correct. Abortion is purposely killing an unborn child. A medical procedure to save a pregnant woman’s life is not an abortion.

I’m talking about Men and Women. Not Trans men or trans women.

It’s rarely ever necessary to save the mother’s life. In those cases it’s a medical procedure that happens to terminate a pregnancy. Abortions are performed solely to terminate the pregnancy.