You’re right, they're not “forcing” kids to be trans.
They’re also not “forcing” kids to be punctual, honest, respectful, literate . . . but many of them become that anyway.
They teach the fallacy that children then experiment with.
They hide student’s experimentation with transgenderism from parents.
They condone use of drugs to postpone puberty.
So, yeah, they pretty much push the idea on elementary school kids.