None of us knows Jesus personally, but the texts we have left suggest that he did not approve judging women in that way. Also, abortion is not "murdering the unborn". Abortion before the fetus is able to survive on its own is cancelling a pregnancy, something that happens all the time on its own. Some 30% of pregnancies terminate on their own: it's not a child until it IS a child.
Ask the older women around you about their full pregnancy history. (Do it without prejudice to hear the real story). You'll discover that it's full of grey areas, and pregnancies that did not go to term.
