tbh i don’t know my gender either. just try different pronouns and labels, like if your current gender is male do the opposite and say “girl” “woman” “ma’am” n things. idk how to do that for enby besides things like “friend” “partner”. use different pronouns on you and ask others to do it too. for example “yeah, that’s [sprout]. they played minecraft with me on their computer yesterday”. see what makes you happy, what icks you. sometimes it’s really hard because you’re so used to your birth pronouns and sometimes it’s super easy. each journey is different per person and takes a crap load of time.
if you need help i’m open. btdubs for future reference there’s no need for self censorship like that. no need to say “ducking”- you won’t get in trouble for that here
fell asleep almost immediately after saying this 😭 haven’t been feeling good the last few days. horrors persist but so do we just wanted to update you on why it’s not done yet 🥀