I agree 100%. The best advance that I ever got on women was given before I even met my wife. An old friend of my father passed it along at his anniversary party. He passed this advice; 'never marry a woman you can live with, marry a woman you can't live without."
I was older before I really understood it. Looking back at all my successes, failures, wins and loses my wife was right beside me, never losing faith and when needed pulling me back, placing me back on the right road and shoving me forward. I tell people all the time, I know what I get out of the deal, I have no idea why she stays.
The best advice that I can give a young man thinking of getting married is: 'never marry a woman you can live with, marry a woman you can't live without."