I'm Danish and even 45 yo, and we're all expected to hold the doors for all people - Danish culture. But the meme has both literal and symbolic properties. We're also less fat anyway. But I market to the U.S cos try tiny f**king Denmark - no audience. That has made me kinda obsessed with the U.S.
The symbolic one would be that a guy has to realize his standards and not feel the natural way like "wow she likes me, I'm privileged" cos obviously men are less desired than women from appearance already, and instinct says "gotta take it when it finally appears" no matter the circumstance, being it at church or an anarchist datingsite.
Something has to be specific to you, and if she fails at understanding that, you're not supposed to live with that the rest of your life in silence or desperation