There is someone for everyone and I think the main problem is finding the right person.

You can participate in things you enjoy doing and perhaps find a young woman who does the same.

If you enjoy reading, you might meet someone at the library. If you enjoy running/exercising, perhaps you will find her on a field or working out in a gym.

I think the best place today that you can meet someone is online. Put a recent photo of yourself up and a description of what you enjoy doing and what you are looking for in life. Always be honest and don't embellish. There are a lot of free sites so you have nothing to lose.

I found our fabulous son-in-law for our daughter online. It was on a site called 'Plenty of Fish'. I put a photo of her up, wrote a description of what her interests were & what she wanted in life, and found the best match for her ever! They have been married for many years now and we have two beautiful granddaughters as a result.

I would think that most people look for dependable, honest, loyal, capable and fun people to either have a relationship with or marry. Make sure you work on yourself to be that person.

Always be optimistic and never give up! Just make the right choice if you are getting married. Pay attention to red flags even if you care a lot about someone.

I made the right choice (with my heart AND my head) and would not trade him for anything. He was only 'himself' so do not change your basic nature to try to please someone else. Just be the authentic YOU, not a fake.

Nobody promotes (brags upon) a child like a mom. Well done and congratulations Mrs B ! 😁👍🏆

Thanks for the advice Backman. Sorry if I didn't answered before, but my ability to comment was blocked

Hey Backman, I forgot to ask you but does this website called Plenty of fish works for my Italy too?

I wasn't sure so checked it out....

Plenty of Fish is not limited only to Americans; it is a global platform available in multiple countries including Canada, the United Kingdom, Australia, Ireland, New Zealand, Spain, France, Germany, and Italy. While the service has a strong presence in the United States, it accepts new users from these international regions and offers interfaces in English, French, German, and Spanish.

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"I think the best place today that you can meet someone is online."

More people in America report being single than in a relationship, whether it be marriage, dating, whatever. For the first time in history. And I heard that a decade ago, it hasn't gotten any better.

It is a known fact that online dating sites have ruined dating. It may have been good in the beginning, but it ended up becoming a substitute, and nowadays, forget it. They'll tell you within a couple of weeks that they're totally in love with you without really knowing you, and ghost you twice as quick and move on to the next person and do the same. That's just a fact, you can look it up.

No, there is not someone for everyone. That's why so many people are alone, and why so many people never had anyone. It's also why some people have had so many.

I got a saying, "A job is like a girlfriend, the best way to get one, is to have one." You're unemployed? Nobody is interested. You got a job, they want to know how much they can pay to steal you away from that and hire you.

Same thing with women. Remember how old I told you I was when I lost my virginity? I didn't date till then, till that age. And once I got involved with somebody, they could smell it, because suddenly they were looking at me. And I mean looking at me, not at we - she lived out in Long Island, so we only saw each other on the weekends. It wasn't like an everyday thing that we were walking down the block and suddenly women were looking at me. We'd get together, go to a restaurant, then go to her apartment. And it wasn't like I was acting different, more confident, cock of the walk. I was still mopy me. And when we broke up, I wasn't getting any more attention again until I finally found another girlfriend.

When I was in high school, one of the guys I used to hang out with from across the street told me that the reason I didn't have a girlfriend was because I didn't lie. Now it's not that I had some reason to lie, like to cover something up, to make myself sound better. I was just another kid in high school. It made no sense to me, except I did have a thing about being honest to the point of obsessive/compulsive.

I didn't start dating till several years later, but I found that it was absolutely true, as if I hadn't noticed from people I knew who were dating.

One thing I kept hearing from those I dated was that they were surprised how comfortable they were with me, that they could actually be themselves. So I asked one of them when she told me that once, that I heard that from quite a few women, and she told me "Because you're, you - you don't put up a front."

After a couple years, I started getting cynical, and sometimes as a goof, I'd put on this "I don't care attitude, whatever happens happens, screw them all." If they asked me what do I do, and I told him I was in college, they weren't interested. But when I said, "eh, you know, a little bit of this, a little bit of that," they went for it. I can put up a front for short bursts, but since I don't like lying, I just can't keep it up.

Those that ended up going out with me would tell me after some time that when I said about how I "do little bit of this, a little bit of that," they thought I was a drug dealer or something. I heard this from multiple people. If I told him I was in college, they exit the conversation when I met them. But they were willing to go out with me thinking I might have actually been a drug dealer. Now these weren't girls from the hood, these are nicely dressed women from more middle class backgrounds.

Anyways, it sounds weird but women like guys who lie. They also like guys who they can complain about, in case you haven't noticed that. That's all they do, complain about their boyfriends.

Back when I was a teenager, yes, I was good at giving advice then too. And I'd be talking to someone, and she would tell me she wished she could meet a guy like me. I'd look at her and say, "But you already did, me." Then she'd say, "Oh, but you're not my type." I was the only one that understands, the only one they can talk to, the only one that makes sense. But I wasn't their type.

When I was older and acted like a jerk who doesn't care, they loved it.

You're right, that's also what happened to me a lot of times at high school, they liked when I used to play someone else instead of the real me, so I think they really love that "perfect character" a guy often portray, at gym in fact, i had the confirm of it noticing Eros attitude towards women, he just played a role with his female staff, and so i decided to do it too as well with his female subscribers, they loved it, a lot of women even older than me used to greet me and talk to me when I used to portray this character, that wasn't anything like me 🤷🏻

They like it.

So many women has spoken to me about it, acting like they don't know, but the fact is they're actually the ones who first pointed out that they're suspicious. If someone says "and I don't think he's married," she knows he is. Why does she bring it up if he wasn't? That was somebody I knew we started going out with a guy who took her to his apartment and all he had in the entire apartment was a crappy bed. That's it. The apartment was empty except for one bed. He didn't even have a table or chairs, nothing not even a TV or books or anything. She kept going out with him anyways. Until his wife finally called her up and scared the crap out of her.

Another one said a similar thing about somebody pretending to be in the Army but was actually unemployed. She basically brought it up about him not working and faking about the Army, but she was saying it like it was true and that she believed him.

So she starts lending him money because he he said he had an Army paycheck that was arriving late. And she kept giving him money with that as an excuse. He sucked money out of her for months until she realized there was no check and there was no Army in his life. She knew, but she literally just threw money away at him because she liked the lie.

Then one woman I knew claimed she was going out with a lawyer, although it was a little odd because he dressed a bit frumpy and was always home. For weeks I kept telling her he was unemployed, she didn't listen. One day a booklet of Food stamps (coupons like dollar bills for jobless people to buy food, but now instead of paper it's like a credit card) fell out of his pocket. She told me he said that it actually belonged to a client of his and he was holding on to them for him. Why is a lawyer holding a poor person's food stamps for him? She still kept going out with him, and then finally he confessed to her that he was jobless and was never a lawyer.