Oh, it's just the male patriarchy that keeps women from getting into those lines of work, and so she'll grit her teeth and grumble when she NEEDS a man to do one of those things.
As for me and in response to her response to me (because she blocked me) "it's always an abusive man" who starts it all, well, I've been on the recieving end of female abuse, as I've been bit, slapped, kicked, spit on, and burned, as well as having my identity stolen and about 3,500 taken out of my bank but I knew if I messed up one little hair on her head it would have been ME who had to go to jail for domestic violence so I did the only thing I could which was tell her to get out and then change the locks.
But as we all know abuse only runs one way, from a man to a woman always, and that cigarette burn was just a figment of my imagination......
I should have called on her but she's someone elses problem now and from time to time I pray for him whoever he happens to be LOL