Nice essay you got there. I guess it was inevitable once it became a debate on this. I'll try to be as respectful as I can as I debate because a heated debate is like trench warfare. No one can win, it's a stalemate. I too, like any Christian, seek to know the nature of God's creation and the nature of God himself.
You have a cool point, but you misinterpret the Bible. It does NOT say "you shall not kill," it says "you shall not murder." There's a real difference here. The Bible isn't against the American stand your ground law. I also think that what makes something moral is love. Sure, the Bible does have the Ten Commandments and stuff, but I'll say those are to be followed because of love, because God is love.
This is a little difficult to explain, but it's why we need Jesus and why before that we needed to make burnt offerings. You can say with confidence that you've never committed adultery or arson. But can you say with confidence that you've never lusted after another woman? Certainly not. You may never have murdered, but have you been angry at your brother? You most certainly have. The truth is, your sins are so great that you can never escape them without Jesus.
The Bible was actually considered heretical to some. Jesus taught directly to women even. And you're wrong that the perfect view changes over time. There exists one or zero perfect possibilities, and it doesn't change. I'm suggesting that that's the Bible's teaching. Even 2000 years later(not 1000), when the Bible was written.
He's all loving, and he's all good. But, you may realize, He is a God the loves you, and that means he is a God of justice. He is a God of mercy and He is a God of justice. He does care, and if he didn't punish us then perhaps that's why he doesn't love us. The problem of evil is proof, not a problem.
...Because He's God. It does constitute for an infinite amount of time. That's why you need Jesus.
??? Let's see if I caught your argument. This applies to determinism, but remember that not all Christians are determinists. I am, my friends are, but not everyone. And there's nothing wrong with determinism. Since He's God, he knows what you're going to do. If you try to juke your determined future out, then you were always destined to try to juke it out and, thus, don't juke it out. If you chose vanilla, He knows you were going to choose vanilla(it's also the superior flavor, heh heh).