I don't mind boykisser if it's used once in a while but the horniness and hypersexuality can make the community appear sexually deviant, which is what we *don't* want.
I like to think of a world where it isn't something attributed to the LGBTQ community. If you look at a lot of the culture, especially on sites like Tumblr, transgender users often objectify themselves and others and make a large portion of their account about sexual matters, often to the dismay of TERFs (radical feminists who believe transgenderism is morally invalid on the grounds that you are born as you should be), where in many cases users will even threaten to rape them (in a joking manner) which obviously upsets them. I don't even want to talk about radical queer ideology- much of it believes in the negation of consent (necrophilia for example), or sometimes use of ill-advised consent (pedo/paraphilia or bestiality).
I disdain much of the hypersexuality found in such communities on the grounds that I think LGBTQ people aren't special and deserve no more privilege and no less privilege than a cisgender heterosexual person. That's not to say it cannot be done tastefully (I think Terraswallows is a sweet woman who writes situational smut in a manner that isn't offensive or overly sappy or cheap), but I think that openly and casually discussing kinks or sexual activity are harmful to the perception of queer individuals and are indeed highly disgusting. Much of this also wouldn't be an issue if it were done over the right channels or with prior advisory (e.g., categorizing it as what it is and/or informing people at the beginning of such a passage that what they are about to read may be highly sexual).But it isn't.
Sorry for the essay. I've studied.
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