Shouldn't you be trying to lead others towards a relationship with Jesus Christ as well?

Always. I want to also keep my fellow believers on the path to God at all times. Never forget the Bible tells us that, "Many will say to me in that day, 'Lord, Lord, have we not in Your name, cast out demons in Your name, and done many wonders in Your name?' And then I will declare to them, 'i never knew you, depart from Me.." Many that call themselves "Christians" will not hear when they make it to the day of Judgement, "Well done thou good and faithful servant."

someone recently told me "the point of christianity is to be more like christ" at church and i liked that description quite a lot

I like it as well. He is the blueprint we should follow. As He was always in relationship with The Father and he died to offer us a reset to be in relationship with God that was severed in Eden. The point I made in my post was we should not be primarily focused upon Jesus to escape hell and experience heaven.

yes, i agree
you'll have a home with Jesus and The Father. the emphasis is on sharing it with them and loving them as they love you.