Let's see from the other side of the spectrum:
Conservatism: Literally goes against freedom of speech or expression because their whole thing is preventing the spread of ideologies they don't like, protect Conservative Christian rights only, encourages hate against what they don't understand rather than trying to learn about it as what has made humanity successful, conserves rigid rules of what society expects males to be like once again allowing less freedom of expression, those last two are fair.
Wokeness: Give example of "chaos and disorder" please, called "Woke" for a reason because they woke up and saw that we should be more accepting and less in-line with with what society expects of them, religious wokes exist and conservatives refuse to recognize them, only opposes speech that offends people which was already not protected by law, your precious 'masculinity' will not go extinct so don't worry, the 'wacky fetishes' part only applies to degenerates and most wokes don't like them either, provides emotional support and comfort for people allowing them to open up rather than beating them back in line when they step out.
So one group are hypocrites that want to protect freedom of speech and yet advocate for following rules that say they should oppose different sets of beliefs, and the other, well, they're not much better to tell the truth, they argue just as much only for the same reason, but atleast they actually care for people and can accept others beliefs. Could you also give me some examples of how conservative people can be kind? Even to those they disagree with?