If you come up with better insults/comebacks than them, that should shut them up. One of my favorites is "I could eat a bowl of alphabet soup and look in the toilet an hour later to find a more educated response". You should also pray for them, that they see how they might see how what they're doing isn't right in God's eyes. But if you want them to stop, the whole letting them know you sympathize with them doesn't work. Really all I can say is assert your dominance, and try not to take their stings personally.
I don't know, though. Lol