My own life decisions? You mean like:
To own a gun?
Buy a gas powered automobile?
Buy a 2 stroke engine lawnmower?
Get an education without being taught to question my own gender?
Pray in school?
Use proper grammar instead of they/them?
Play sports with other biological females?
Live in a country that enforces its immigration laws?
Not pay for sex change operations on prison inmates?
Determine if my kids take hormone pills, dress like their opposite sex or get an abortion?