...so murdering it in utero is okay.
Yeah, you walked right into that one, bud. If pregnancy can hurt a woman's body she can do things to not get pregnant- like, for example, and I don't know if you've heard of this, but abstaining from sex? Yeah, if she's worried about a pregnancy hurting her body then abstaining from sex is probably her best option. And pregnancy doesn't hurt the female body as much as you say or we wouldn't be here having this discussion right now. Women have been getting pregnant throughout history and continue to do so despite your apparent warnings.