I agree that gender dysphoria is serious and needs to be treated as such. However, what you’re talking about does not happen on the scale you claim.
That being said, I do see where you’re coming from with mental conditions, disabilities, and illnesses being faked for clout. I’ve seen that happen with things like autism and DID, and it is quite the travesty. Having said that, I don’t think being transgender falls under that, as one does not necessarily need to have gender dysphoria to be trans. Yes, children should not be forced into any gender they don’t want to be, which is why irreversible treatments are seldom given to minors.
What I’m trying to say is, I understand your misgivings, and agree with some of them as well, but most of your argument feels like an overreaction