So your main point is that he said they were "lied to" that careers in the secular workplace world are the ONLY path to fulfillment.
You have offered little in support that this career path "truth" is "The Only Path to Fulfillment" for all College Graduate Women regardless of religion or marital status? If it is not the only path, and there exists other paths, then to the kicker, this may be "The Lie" that has been told by USA society to college graduate catholic women and the men in their lives that support them on their life journey.
He offered that becoming a nurturing, loving, responsible mother and faithful wife
is another optional path to fulfillment. Can you offer anything to the contrary, that disproves this claim of his? That one can attain fulfillment in more than one narrow vocational path,
by becoming a nun, or through their career, or nurturing, loving, responsible motherhood, or other paths if one is physically incapable of having their own children (adopt, or volunteer)
He advocated for mainly one path, yet that does not make that path the only path possible, nor does it nullify his claim, because that is your least desirable path for you.
This apparently upset people ( me ! me ! me ! ) whom internalized this comment as not inclusive of them,
...as they've NOT chosen this optional alternative to seek fulfillment. The comment is also excluding men whom may not become a loving, nurturing, responsible mother nor faithful wife for biology already chose that option for them at birth.
(At ease, "transphobe" vocabulary holders, this topic isn't about you, until you make it about you.)
If you don't want to be included, you don't have to be DEI inclusive... and any church of any denomination ought not be compelled to change their teachings, just so that they fit you rather than you fit in with their teachings. Feel free to live and let live, if you choose not to join his church.
Some nuns feel left out of this option as well, for they chose another path to fulfillment than motherhood.
We're all human. Why be envious of paths we have not chosen for ourselves to seek our own fulfillment? Our uniqueness on these many varied paths are okay. Our differences can be strengths.