1a) You agree that what an abortion achieves is the intentional death of a living, human, clump of cells, that if not killed would complete it's growth cycle and spontaneously evacuate the womb.
Abortion is baby murder.
If you advocate the practice be honest enough to call it what it is.
2a) I likewise believe I gave the right, perhaps duty, to try everything possible to prevent a female from having a medically unnecessary abortion. Because it is not the right thing to do, and for many, if not all of the reasons you gave for arguing against another's decision of what they want to do with their own body.
I have no issue with anyone choosing what to do with their own body, but the "parasitic clump of living, human, embryonic cells" is not their own body.
3) The "conservative fantasy" is your own creation.
I use the term recreational abortion in referring to the vast majority of baby murders that are wholly devoid of medical necessity.
If some women feel they are demonized by that, I say they are actually feeling the guilt that comes from doing something they know is not right to do - killing a helpless, developing, human being
There are many females that use abortion/baby murder as a means of birth control.