Who are the real gender ideologues here?

Nope, it is in fact conservatives who project about those things all while banning books, expelling representatives from the house, protecting child predators in the Catholic Church, and wanting children's genitals inspected.

When you counter someone by saying something that starts off with "Nope, it is in fact..." usually everything you say after that is pure opinion.

Unless of course you actually use some sourced facts and don't just spout your opinion, which is all you did in your reply.

put cameras in the class rooms and lets see the rate of this gender nonsense after 1 generation :)

and today in another example of
'it doesn't happen'
followed by
'no dont do that, it'll stop it from happening'...

gender norms are very much a social construct indeed

Okay, prager, here's a chance for you to shine. Please provide three examples of 'enforcing gender norms' and how doing so required 'a constant state of surveillance and censorship', please.

If you can do that, then anyone who is fair minded will have to consider agreeing with this meme. Otherwise, it's pure BS opinion.