Good point

Trans basically means that you change to the polar opposite. Boy - girl or vice versa. Non-binary is to no gender, etc

So the "non-binary" people don't want to decide or commit to a gender. They're like the "Switzerland" of the gender world.

Swiss just don’t wanna get nuked man. Also, people just feel indifferent. Like, if somebody said if you like a random construction project in New York or a random construction project in Carolina. What do you care? Makes no diff to you. You support or not both equally. Same with gender. They feel both equally.

If it were just indifference, like if a "non-binary" person didn't want to emphasize their gender or certain role, but "non-binary" people go way beyond that in they refuse to be classified by a gender at all, believing they are a 3rd distinct gender, neither male nor female. If it were just merely indifference or want not to be limited by gender roles, that would a more individualistic worldview rather than coercing others to adopt their worldview.

That is exactly what they do! They want to be identified as neither and want to not be limited by the gender role, like you said