Okay, let me explain in a very simple way:
Girls don't interact socially the same way as dudes. Us dudes will essentially insult the living shit out of each other and beat each other up, but always support our friends genuinely in every possible way. If I sent my friend a random discord server with zero explanation, he'd probably tell me to shut the fuсk up and probably would block me.
I've heard that girls interact quite differently, that they'll speak kind words to each other but have malicious intentions. I don't think this is quite true, but I suppose even parodies are closer to the truth than guessing. Anyhow, I don't know what's going on, why I wrote this, or anything else.