You can't legislate how people THINK, Octavia. You cannot force your biases or values (or lack of them) on people. We are allowed free thought. If I want to call someone *fat, I have the right to do it. If you don't like blondes, that is your right and it won't trigger me. I judge people by their words and actions, not superficial skin tone. It is the way I was raised and most people today feel the same.
There is NO systemic racism in our country. It is 2021 and not 1950. I wasn't around then and you weren't either. Times have changed, people have grown, and we are a very inclusive country. Quit forcing SJW lies and victimhood mentality on groups of people in an effort to keep them down. People can be whoever they want to be; just ask Ben Carson, Allen West, Thomas Sowell, Walter Williams (oops, he came to mind but he unfortunately died last year) etc. These are good role models for our kids and not Jesse Jackson, Al Sharpton, Che Guevara or Malcolm X....
*I would not call someone 'fat' as I don't believe in "fat-shaming"...it is just an example.