Modern feminism is defined by its toxicity, just like the KKK is defined by its racism - It is its main characteristic. I know a vast, vast majority of feminists are delusional cultists, so rational thot, and self-awareness are not very high up in their very few life skills.
So, maybe non-toxic feminists may exist, but they are the extreme minority, and I'd imagine they're too delusional/intellectually dishonest with themselves and others about what feminism stands for, so that arguably doesn't make them terrific people simply because they wave the banner of a hate group and try to lie to themselves and others about the fact that it is a hate group (or, I guess 'hate cult' is more accurate)...