Not condoning what is getting hurled at you, but dissuading by aggravating tends not to work. Name calling is hardly calming.
Also, informing people that they're freaking you out won't help, whether or not you think that's what they're actually trying to do.
This is the web, no one here exists more than you want them to, just blips dancing round the electric sky. Do as you will, as will they, as will us all.