"Masturbation occurs in almost every adult male, even if in married ones. It is normal and not so called "harmful and unhealthy". As to your concerns about the shape of your p**is, it can be in several kinds of shapes, short or long, thin or thick, flaccid or firm. It is all normal, as long as your p**is can stand erect and complete the intercourse with your partner. Take it easy. But, do not jerk off too often, less than 7 a week, and when doing it enjoying it. Wish it helps."
Whoring around is irresponsible in the first place. It means you're disloyal, and you can get herpes or STDs.