I'm sorry to hear you've been brushed off. Personally, I don't know everything there is to answer that question but I go to a well-established church so next time I go to it which is most likely not gonna be anytime soon cause of Covid. But, I ask questions all the time, and not once I have gotten brushed off and set aside because of it so a piece of advice if you're getting brushed aside, you NEED to talk to someone else. A good start would to look into some major churches in your area and try searching some stuff up on the Internet.
I lived in Colorado and currently, Texas, and the two main churches I went to are called Rocky Mountain Calvary(Colorado) and it's amazing!! The pastors and staff are nice and know a great deal about scripture. For Texas, I go to Stonebriar Community Church, and personally, it's better than Rocky Mountain Calvary personally.
Also, question the Bible. Don't revoke the word of God, but question it, ask what different verses mean and how does God wants us to interpret it. Just because one person interprets it one way, doesn't mean someone else does as well. So be curious as to what the Bible says. One thing I've been told is what God says in the Bible, happens just like that in the Bible; if he said "the river turned into blood," the river turned into blood. Not the color red, not some algae, it turned into blood. Word for word.