I'm not sure I understand the question, because I don't think anything about you. No dig there, but it's because I don't know you. I have no idea who you are or what kind of life you lead.
I think though, that if a person lets the words of others hurt them, truly hurt them, they need to stop and think why they let that happen. If they can't get to the bottom of it on their own, perhaps some kind of therapy or counseling would help.
I just can't imagine living my life being at the mercy of other peoples' words. I won't let that happen, and I don't think anyone else should either. There are plenty of things in this world that can make people miserable, but words shouldn't be among them.
But let's dig a big deeper. (I'll keep it short...) Let's say a young person is being verbally abused by a parent, or a relative, or even a role model of some sort. Yes, that could definitely emotionally hurt a child. If that's not addressed while they're young, they need to get it addressed once they're an adult. Therapy or counseling of some sort. It's no way to live, imo. Hopefully if something like that has happened to someone as a child, once they become an adult, they're transitioning out of those feeling through therapy or counseling.
