....It seems there may be some common ground in our opinions. Given how many things we have disagreed upon in the past, I was not expecting that.
"Grade on a curve" I'd like see this idea developed and spread like a virus. Whether we're talking about racism or sexually inappropriate behavior, the all or nothing approach that has dominated the national response is unsatisfactory. How do we avoid dismissing all the good ( pro--social, benefitting many, enhancing communities) that a person has done while still holding them accountable for their objectionable behaviors? Are we all to be judged only by our worst moments?
Former NFL owner Jerry Richardson sold the Carolina Panthers when his sexually inappropriate behavior came to light. He didn't touch anyone, with or without consent. He didn't make a quid pro quo. He did treat women in his organization as sexualized objects. He also completely revitalized Charlotte, NC, by locating the team there, creating opportunity for who knows how many. Al Franken was reportedly sexually inappropriate as well with several women, but it's hard to avoid the idea that during his time in office he did a lot of good for a lot of people.
So I like your idea and I think that you are on to something. We cannot use positive behaviors to justify racism or sexual misconduct, but neither is justice served by painting with a broad brush.