what's something that you've witnessed that you wish you never had to see?

JeffreyStone AKA Pantyguy

Straight facts

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You're not alone.

Knew this one was coming

When I was a kid I saw an old lady fall head over heels down the escalator at the airport.

oh god, how badly was she hurt?

I don't really know. She had a big bleeding wound on the back of her head, but she just gathered her
stuff, put her hat back on & walked away; it was really weird.

Is that the gym teacher’s grandma?

I'm not sure which gym teacher you mean.
It might have been his grandma, though.
Didn't catch her name.

Child development class in high school

Once I was hanging out with my friends, and this literal 10 yo is texting my friend I was with nudes!

I'm guessing he didn't know the implications of that... or if he did, I wonder what his parents were like

Yeah... It was... He was... His parents are...

Let's just say I'm glad we go to different schools now.

good god... I thought those identical twins drawing d*cks on the whiteboard was bad...

I mean not saying that wasn't but yeah um it was an odd conversation with some parents

Oh dios mio, nani?!

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It means “oh my god, WHAT?!”

Ok thanks

And yes. It was a really weird day.

The last time I saw my grandfather before he died.

...that... that sounds painful...

I was 16 at the time and he was 86. He never got over my grandmother's death and crawled back in his own misery unwilling to accept any help, forcing himself into a kind of stat that is similar to Alzheimer. The last time I saw him, he stank, hardly responded to anyone and since his fake teeth would immediately fall out of his mouth as soon as you put them in, his face looked well... hard to describe. I ran out of the room, as I couldn't bear to see it any longer to see a man I loved in that state, as he meant a lot to me when I was a little boy. I did see him after he died in his coffin and I can describe him with one word "dead". No nice stories like "just like he was sleeping" (my grandmother did indeed look like that when she was lying in her coffin), just "dead".

And whatever happens, until the day I'll die myself, I know that image will stick with me, whether I want it or not. So yeah, that was indeed painful... I didn't wanna shock ya, but that is the image I wish I could unsee, but of which I know I'll never be able to.

wow... I-I'm so sorry to hear that, I'm at a loss for words

It's alright. I sense some will to support me, and that already means a lot to me

Alzheimer's is such an ugly disease. I can't imagine how painful it must have been to see someone you love in such a state. And for that to be your final memory of him.

Yeah, I'd rather remember him for the naughty boy that came up in him whenever I visited him when I was little, and seeing him what he became towards the end... It was rather horrible.

The "homes" of those in need. I work with a ministry every year that helps people in SC where I live. We March an army of teenagers into these houses and completely destroy the place, then build it back again in one weeks time. It's a great ministry, helping those in need but it pains me to no end to know that there are people right under our noses that live in horrid conditions. No running water, no working bathroom, floors fallen in to the point that the home is not habitable and yet they still live there, leaky roofs, no power, kitchens with only a camp stove to cook on, bugs and general nastiness everywhere.

Every year I participate, I meet another wonderful family that is in desperate need. It is a very humbling experience to meet these people, in spite of all of our blessings, and see how they merely survive on whatever scrounging they can muster. I wish I never had to see any of it, but it makes me grateful for what I have and it's very fulfilling to help the families that we're called to serve. You will never meet a more genuine and lovely bunch of people than those serviced by this program. They appreciate all they have, pitiful as it may be, whereas we generally do not. I've learned more from their gratitude through suffering than many other life lessons I've experienced.

That's a wonderful ministry you are involved in. I can't imagine. My mom is a nurse on a medical van that provides free checkups and medical care and medicine to people like you mentioned and the stories of the people she meets breaks your heart. It's a shame society has to be so divided into the haves and the have nots. If we just wasted less and shared more there would be no homeless or people living in squalor like that. At least there's good hearted people like yourself trying to make a change.

You don't have to look far for people in need. It's a very rewarding program! Your mom is a great lady for providing those services, I'm sure those that receive them are very grateful.

That's commendable, Thparky. You're a top-notch citizen.

It's actually really fun! And most of the kids in the program absolutely love it, they come back every year and some even come back after they graduate and participate as an adult. If you think about it, most kids pay money to go to a fun summer camp where you have concerts and camp out and go fishing and what not...these kids pay to come work, it's amazing.

That's awesome.

I wish I never even saw.

I didnt have to see it (luckily) but my bf was on Omegle and in one video chat, their was a guy full on masterbating and my bf couldnt disconnect because of an glitch so he was stuck there for a while until the guy finished and disconnected, i feel extremely bad for him

Pretty much, he told me in detail this morning before school started which i didnt want to know but i will share his pain and suffering
Omegle can be a weird site at times, when ever i go onto it i bet every time i get about 3 people who want to hook up with me even though i tell them that im taken

that's why I don't go on Omegle

I might send the link i sent to one of them

https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=1&ved=2ahUKEwiEgZayp7bnAhWWsJ4KHeHOCoMQyCkwAHoECAsQBA&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.youtube.com%2Fwatch%3Fv%3D1OsnGOuVwMk&usg=AOvVaw1GjwmveuyhS1iKX7lNGbrV

Its a perfect thing to send to them and they left me alone afterwards so im going to do that every time i run into one of them

Lesson learned don’t go on omegle

Ya but i sent a perfect link to one of them and they disconnected instantly