I am 100% female, Octavia, by birth and married to a 100% male, by birth for more decades than you probably have been around. He wears the pants and I wear the panties and not vice versa. I have seen part of our population change from men to whiny, wimpy boys sashaying around. The concocted phrase "toxic masculinity" is meant to further weaken and emasculate males while no one talks of "toxic femininity". If one is a straight female, one knows exactly what male behavior is as it is an attractant to that female.
I am not religious but believe in respecting others and their religions. I am conservative but don't see people acting as you described.