First World Problems

Looking for somone else to blame for one's actions? That's what an abusive husband says after smacking his wife, " look what you made me do".

"Look what you made me do!" Is not a defense

As Bill Burr said (paraphrasing); "Ladies, if I can admit that there are some animal men out there who just start swinging for no reason and should be buried under the prison, can you ladies at least admit that every ass-kicking doesn't just fall out of the f**king sky?"

In other words, yes there are some abusive men out there, but there are also plenty of women out there who indeed did provoke what happened, they push buttons, usually deliberately, (not to mention hitting first), either expecting not to be hit because they know, even if feminists won't admit it, that men ARE taught not to hit women, or because they /want/ to be hit.

That doesn't excuse the hitting happening, but there is /usually/ some back and forth that goes on before it happens. But they start yelling "victim blaming" without admitting the "victim" does in fact bear part of the blame.

My response is to the op claiming mass shootings happen because of feminists, which is total bullshit, maybe in the eyes of someone like Mark Lepine, the original incel. And yes I have and still know abusive women, that is still no excuse to hit one, I never hit back, I just come to my senses and leave, nobody needs that in their life.

You're the one who brought up "an abusive husband smacking his wife".

And again, as Bill Burr said, "there's plenty of reasons to hit a woman, /you just don't do it!/"

But claiming there's "no reason/excuse" is the height of bullshit arrogance. And in fact I can give you one good reason right now to swing for the fences; if a woman is hitting my kids, bitch is going down hard. And don't try to tell me that's a rare scenario, because women are statistically proven to be more abusive, especially towards kids, and especially in cases of /fatal/ abuse.

Restraining a woman doesn't work, because it still gets called abuse and you'll still get "she's just a woman" yelled at you. (such an empowering sentence, don'tcha think?"

Even just trying to leave won't always work, because some will either try to block your exit or follow you every step of the way, haranguing you, deliberately trying to provoke you into hitting her so she can get you arrested.

It is. You will never see it cause it would mean you would have to take some responsibility as part of society BUT YOU LIKE BEING THE VICTIM