Well thats a start, now you just need to recognize, that all refugees are legal until determined otherwise. We are a country of innocence first. Always have been, and hopefully always will be. Moving on. I was that guy in school, dont remember mocking anyone though, heck everyone I knew was the same way, male and female. I just thought of it like motocross, exercise and fun. I dont know a single person not divorced. Even in the last generation it was rare. Based on your post how can you not credit Obama for being a decent family man, esp when compared to DC?
Yes dating today is pathetic. Fortunately a few of the better ones from the school days have always been no more than a plane ticket away for decades. So it worked out ok from where I am sitting. Gonna suck on the death bed, but life is never 100% perfect and never will be, at least not for those that understand that there are things they may have missed out on, or took part in and regret. If you want a bride like that you need to go to them, and you need to fully grasp that the world has different views on many things than Americans, esp marriage. For most the world is more a business deal and you need to always remember that. If you can accept that fact, get your ass down to South America, no wait, babyface Nelson screwed that up for you. Dutch women rock. avoid the Russians or most any Eastern European country. Chinese like gifts and cash, Vietnamese just a good home, etc, do your homework. oh and if you find a Japanese girl willing to be with an American husband, they are likely to be touched in the head a bit and the family would like to her go away. jk,