Technically it IS you're. As in: You are at school. Also, respect your elders (because it seems like this guy is older than you), something I learned as an Asian. And while you do have a point on bad parenting, the one who makes the decision is the child, not their parent(s). Also, sometimes the one who's insulting you is yourself, something I learned the hard way. But I have no idea how your childhood is playing out, so I don't have the right to judge. Final point: This argument is stupid, you're beginning to talk about bullying just because this guy didn't use the "right" template. It's THEIR choice, not yours.