Truth be told, I also make a distinction between "ladies" and "women". I don't care too much for ladies in the context of the high-falutin idea of "being ladylike". Ladies are fine, if a bit snobby sometimes, but give me a /woman/, one who's down to earth, not afraid to chug a beer and burp in front other people. One who's willing to get her elbows greasy and her knees dirty, and who doesn't put up with the SJW, PC crap.
And you seem to be that type ;-)
(Also, for the purpose of differentiation in this discussion, we'll call the SJW types "females". The icing on the cake is they hate that, lol)