Children please.. GROWN, strong, humans CAN cry. Extremely few ppl transcend self pity. Animals who've shattered & wounded themselves with hate, vengeance, and anger playing the destroyer to get their way can't cry & as a result have no mercy for self. They do not get to live their own life. They do not get to be who they are. They also have lots of dumb advice for humans on how to live which has not worked out for them. shhush now.. the grown ups are talking. You can cry if you need to and if you are strong enough. Sad things happen. Crying first is the responsible thing to do. The refusal of sadness is the refusal of self. Wii're emo critters, Thumbelina. No exceptions.