Haven't heard from my sons mother in over two months now, no call on his bday even, but he is happy that he doesn't have to visit her at that nasty trailer. So I don't feel guilty for telling her she couldn't take him there anymore. I never said she couldn't see him or call him even, I only said she couldn't take him there where she was letting her boyfriend of a couple months spank my kid! Who does that? I have always chose my kids over who I was dating, yet alone let somebody hit my kid, so messed up!