"I think the story was about not letting them in the restroom of the opposite sex. No one is claiming that they are forcing anyone to live a certain way."
Apart from when they force trans individuals to enter the bathroom of the gender they were "born with".
"They raise them with certain values, beliefs and social interactions." "Children live by the life choices that their parents make for them."
Including like the choices you just described. However, transgenderism isn't a choice, nor is it comparable to bed times or diets.