It is extremely difficult to make children unhappy. Thats why child abuse is so bad, because the people who do it have to dedicate almost all of their entire life to it in order to make children unhappy. I'm sorry if you were one of those rare and extreme cases, but children were born to be happy. It is very hard work to train someone to become unhappy. So you are either abnormally fixated on rare and extreme things that hardly ever happen. Or you are the person that would do them. Or both.