I dont really know. :C

If they are creeping you about, they are not flirting. They are being creepy. You should, and can, enjoy being flirted with. If you don't flirt back, the guy shouldn't expect ANYTHING from you. Anyone who asks you directly to perform a sexual act when you all you've been doing for the past 10 minutes is talking and who KNOWS you are underage isn't flirting, they are being immature and creepy. Flirting is defined as playfully showing your sexual attraction for someone. You should be amused and flattered by flirtation, if it's creepy it is not FLIRTY.

The world has changed a lot since I was your age and I myself am old fashioned when it comes to such things. I have however made a lot of mistakes in this area that have taught me many things as well. Knowing what I do about you I believe that just doing that to some guy you don't plan on being with a long time isn't in your nature. I don't know how long you have been dating or anything but my guess is not all that long. Either that or he hasn't really paid attention to you, for if he had he would have known without asking you are not the type of girl to just ask for that kind of thing from. Boys can fake a lot of things when it comes to trying to get laid. The one thing they can't fake is loving you to the point that they wouldn't want to pressure you into anything you aren't comfortable with. Isn't that what love is supposed to be about? Putting the other person's feelings before your own. So if you are in any type of situation where the boy tells you he loves you. Keep this simple thing in mind to help battle all the flattering things he may say to you in order to get you to do what he wants. If they are pressuring or even asking for more than is comfortable for you to give, they haven't paid enough attention to who you are to be in love with you. If you love somebody you don't try to change them to suit your needs. If they truly fell in love with somebody who isn't ready for sex they should love that about you also, you know what I'm trying to say? So many people are in such a hurry to have sex they never learn how much better making love is. Unfortunately most people don't figure this stuff out without making a bunch of mistakes first, I know I did. Too many times in my life I have given my love to somebody that didn't deserve it. Thinking if they said the words the rest had to be true. It wasn't until later I learned to stop listening to words and focus only on actions. When you take the words away and only see how they treat you, it's a lot easier to know if they really love you or not.

I never really thought of you as the kind of person thats ever done something like that. But then again, I still have a lot to learn about you...

What is it you think I have done exactly?

I dont really know. You just don't really strike me as someone thats done anything bad.

I actually see you as a really nice and good guy because or the way I see you act on here. And you always seem to be extra careful on what you say when you know I'm around some where. Unless its something that I really need to know. You just seem like a caring person to me. And I'm hoping I can meet you in person someday if I ever can...

I've never been the type to intentionally hurt anybody, but we all make mistakes in relationships, sometimes just in picking the wrong person lol. I was raised to treat women with respect and to be a gentleman, something I sadly don't see much of in the younger generation of boys out there today.

I can tell. You never really seem have hurt anybody to me. But I still have a lot to learn about you...

You have to be careful online m'lady. There are people that get on sites like this and make themselves out to be completely different than they are in real life. You never know who it is you are really talking to. The idea of you meeting anybody from a site like this scares me, I'd say if they don't agree to meet you with your father or your school's football team around then don't do it please.

Oh no need to worry about that. I would never meet someone that I met online alone. I would make sure my mega strong friend named Lauren (she has put ppl in the hospital for hurting her friends. One person just recently.) was with me. Plus I know a couple of moves that can kill in less than a second...

I'm not dating anyone at the moment. And I'm not really planning on doing anything like that. And I don't really plan on dating again any time soon because of the ways boys are acting at this age. And I just let them flirt for a little bit before I make them stop.

Good comment. Guys know what to say to get what they want. If they say that sort of thing, don't believe it's for your sake.

Thanks :) It's sad but true and not just limited to the male species. Though at that age it's much more likely. A group of teenage boys all try to convince each other they are getting a bunch of action. It becomes like a competition and they spend more time thinking about how to get laid than any girl is prepared to believe possible. It seems nowadays though younger people are just fine with casual meaningless sex. Or at least they all try to appear that way. Which makes it even harder for an individual to try and wait until it feels right instead of just wanting to get it done so they fit in. All I know is that in my lifetime I was only with one woman who had never been with a man before. And she lied about it because she thought I would be less attracted to her if I knew she had no experience. I thought it was really sad that the world has come to this. Even 2pac said I don't want it if it's that easy ;)

Oh. I know the girls can be very aggressive also. Often probably worse than the guys.

Thanks, I've been writing a lot recently and it's been a challenge to switch from one method of creativity to another without part of it rubbing off lol.

I was a virgin to age 24 & don't regret it at all. I've been married to that woman for longer than I wasn't.

You should only get creeped out if an older man flirts with you. Lol!

There was a 16 year old boy flirting with me and new I was 14 and after a while, here is what he said to me. (well sorta. I'm gonna star out a word...) here is what he asked. "will you suck my **** pls? :) " that is what he said.

Wow, kids these days are a lot more forward than they used to be when I was your age back in the early 90's. And you said you liked that he said it, but were also creeped out? I think if you were creeped out you should ignore it and don't give him what he wants. You'll be happier in the long run if you don't.

No. I liked that he was calling me beautiful and babe.

From my experience, me being in my late 30's and me being a man...he was calling you that because he wanted to get something from you. Especially since he said what he said. I'm only telling you this because I wouldn't want you to get hurt. He doesn't sound like a good guy.

And are you saying you've done it? Or just know someone that did?

I'm married so I get marriage benefits.

I know. I'm a little watchful. I will let them flirt for a while but make them stop when they get creepy. And I wouldn't do meet a stranger in person unless its like you, jying, Socrates, and/or maybe raydog...

Lol! I feel honored you would meet me. Lol!

Boys my age don't really care of we are interested. As long as they are popular...

Really? I was her age in the 70's and had sex by the time I was 15. We did all sorts of stuff but it was much different than now. Young love isn't what it used to be.

The 70's was also a very different time than the 80's and early 90's. During my young days everyone was scared of AIDs. In the 70's everyone was dropping acid. Lol!

I know. I find it sad the way kids have to live. Even with all the technology they will never know innocent fun without everyone coming down on them from every direction. It was a great time for kids. You could go anywhere and not worry about pedophiles or getting in trouble over the smallest thing.

So true. My parents used to let me and my brothers do a lot of things kids can't do now. It's a shame.

Female perspective here: If a guy asks you to suck his **** jokingly or not, he is not worth a moment of your time. Not a smile - Not a smart remark. You are only 14. Making lewd comments is not flirting, it is being a jerk.

You must have a sheltered family if you think a 16 year old boy flirting with a 14 year old girl is odd or creepy. In any case, be careful because boys can be a bit overwhelming.

I do have a sheltered family. And I know boys can be over whelming. There are more boys than girls at my school so I understand what you mean...

thers a hacker, bronies are gay. don't comment too him

Ok. How do you know?